Monday, January 28, 2019

Mentoring and Parenting


The developing human being constantly seeks out attention. As the human being grows and matures, picking the type of attention needed, the wider society is continuously judging, as MANNERS Make-it Mankind. The young influential mind is constantly learning, using every input sense to gather lessons, and should be encouraged to produce Peace and Prosperity. Right or wrong are at the root of all lessons, surrounded by Decency and Respect. Parenting (not just making babies but delivering Moral Leadership) is about storytelling, entertaining, sharing facts and opinions. Ideas, formed and strengthened through listening to and reading others’ ideas, are followed by yet others’ efforts to; imagine, practice, test, perform, and constantly, review into better ideas.


Human Beings yearn constantly for attention via good or bad behavior. Guardians should be aware that when, beating, yelling, shouting, or even speaking to their young developing minds in anger, what is communicated and learnt is the anger. Permanently memorized through repetition forming an aggressive, argumentative, fighting and bullying personality. Progressively, from good to bad, fighting for justice to committing violence. Such behavior is further strengthened or curbed with the consideration of time spent with peers; friends and family, exhibiting other disciplined and controlled behavior patterns. The resulting Conduct, accept to or rejected by a majority of Society and its Laws, is what will guide future Peace and Happiness.

A developing mind is alive and learns from every and all sources. Every situation; seen, heard, smelled, touched and tasted is a lesson learnt. Repetitive action solidifies the lessons by making connections in the brain and linking such learning to moral behavior. Avenues of a formal education system are studied through designed and tested curriculum, adjusted for improvements, while, unstructured activities, which is an individual greatest use of time, must grow into structured plans. Developing a creative imagination, critical thinking, analytical measuring, routine responsibilities, and strong strategic plans for each and every human being’s mind is society’s ideal educational mission.

Right and Wrong are easily mis-learned and mis-associated with achievement and accomplishment. Many gain Respect of their peers; friends and family by engaging wrongs, that will not last. The Right way is much slower but promises to last well into history. Parents will tell their children many stories, as they were told, based in history. Entertainment devises will also deliver such moral lessons when Guardians are unavailable. But it will always fall to the lessons of society to share facts; the confirm proven truth, with developing minds. Facts must be distinct from opinions. Over-thinking leads to Procrastination. And, best is the enemy of Good.

The exchange of Ideas, throughout history, has been to improve ideas. Progress can be taking confirm proven facts and studying, how to make it better. Identify weaknesses in these facts by listening to and reading up on how it came about. Gathering Opinions, far and wide, on bettering the facts, querying and testing, if the resulting fact is an improvement on how things are presently done. Remembering that, it (The existing fact) matters much more, that it (A futuristic replacement) being studied, hence rather than over-thinking it, put it the good use. The main lesson learnt is that; the journey is more interesting than the destination. Better never Ends!

Rationale
T.A.J & Associates Company Limited uses this occasion to comment on topics that have been covered, both academically and by the mainstream media, to add its opinion and point out investment opportunity, not to invoke any social action.