Sunday, March 29, 2020

Happiness vs. Power


Power is a mix of Knowledge and Network. Many in leadership positions display on to others, that sense of entitlement, which says; pass a few tests, build trust, produce work, be graded by your peers and be rewarded with appointments, is all there is to attain Happiness. Leading a team that achieves its preset mission, being a team member that produces its goals and objectives, being a support specialist or a routine service performer, will provide income and maybe savings and investments, but will never deliver Happiness. Obviously, Power, over material and human resources, is required in each role. However, only from giving freely of yourself, brings true Happiness.


Many learn to read and write, to communicate, to count and calculate but it is what you know that sets you apart from others. Basic education is to teach you to learn. Hence you can learn about many fields of endeavor, selecting one as a career path. A specialty researched skill with time spent developing experience. A finely tuned talent with guidance from others possessing similar and supportive talents. Such a career, employing your special skills or talents, should earn you money to pay basic living expenses, to improve your lifestyle and gain you respect and Power.

What you do with your Power; special skills or talents, should make you happy. Much more than improving your standard of living, your constant learning will help you grow. Personal reflection and development must instill the essential confidence in your knowledge and allow you to encourage and mentor others in pursuit of similar expertise. This guidance you are willing to share with others, at their stage of a willingness to learn, must not be limited to a career pathway but must also include life lessons. It is the imparting of these lessons, borne out of your, very unique, living experience, which fuels your Happiness.

Many seek out social gatherings and interactions to present and introduce themselves, but it is who you know and trust, that enhances your image. Finding the right associates, persons with general skills and talents in common, is key to your own personal and working development. Many of whom may serve as mentors, providing that model of who you want to be, while also sharing other types of interest. Your Network and support mechanism must further expand into and across multi discipline avenues, forcing knowledge to consistently grow and wisdom to take root, maintaining a notable reputation of respect and Power.

Who knows and trust you; should make you happy. Family and Friends are very important but there are many more people, deserving of your attention. Problems and Losses are not setbacks but lessons, which strengthen your existence, and should be Shared openly and freely, incorporated into every human interaction. Expand who you care about by offering the value of pain, the virtue of time and the vigor of sharing. This requires you to assign a vision of where you want to be, how you will get there, and who you will carry with you. It is the achievement of your Personal Purpose, which brings you joy and Happiness.

Rationale
T.A.J & Associates Company Limited uses this occasion to comment on topics that have been covered, both academically and by the mainstream media, to add its opinion and point out investment opportunity, not to invoke any social action.